[Open] Relationships and the Jedi

[Safira]

• Subject Requested:

The friendships, the kindness, the selfishness, the boundries, the respect, the attachments and how to ballance all this with the Jedi

• Public/Private Lesson:

I believe this could be useful to many

• Availability:

Earlier times work better for me

((25. - free
26. 1400-1700
27. + 28. 1100-1700
29. free any time after 1100
30. + 31. - free))

• Reason For Request:

And here I come again, with the same question I was hunting for for times and times again.

How do you behave as a Jedi?

Yes. You could send me to the archives, read the Jedi code again, and we call it a day. All answers are there!

Or are they.
Because, reading stuff from my datapad and actually living them seem so, so different.
Yes, it is so easy to say I am kind and someone else is meanie. But are they trully? Or are they simply different. And by saying that, am I trully what I say, or do I simply lack self-awareness in admiting the truth, lying to myself?

Is setting boundries mean or selfish? Since we are Jedi - and we should help others by any means, even if it is at the cost of ourselves?

What is friendship and what is attachment? Should we be using our names or are those also technically an attachment if you really think about it?

And what about respecting one another? When should one adapt to majority and when should majority adapt to an individual? Or should we, or is “just” understanding be enough?

Can we speak of “common sense” if our temple consists of so many different individuals whose cultures can and often do contradict one another?
We are one big Jedi family, so different and various family, that I feel like helping us understand and respect one another can solve many issues many of us have been facing for a while.
And I feel like those that say to themselves “hah I don’t need this class, it is obvious to me” are those that actually would need guidence in this field the most.

Or… maybe this all is nothing… but I feel like comunication is key to clarity and understandment can bring a lot of inner peace and growth. And, that what is seen in our order is after all just small-scale version of the outside world.

• Additional Information:

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[Linken Anderson]

I hope I can make this if the times line up.

[Nicole Vantane]

I'd be happy to host this class.

I'll coordinate a date and time soon.