/rpautoforce

[Aslyn Denethorn]

Yes, but I believe we're talking about having such an option for when that's not the case...

[Sared Kilvan]

I think a possible solution would be a toggle-able animation/stance for each of these abilities. /emgrip (likewise /emhelpless for the grippee), /emlightning, and so on. Past that, I believe it's just a matter of players being cooperative in their role-playing.