JEDI Comport

• Subject Requested:

Ettiquette

• Public/Private Lesson:

If someone else finds this lesson useful, don’t wanna stand in their way. But, more people means more mess and less time for questions.

• Availability:

((Sunday-Thursday: [1000 - 1700)
Friday: >=1000
Saturday: free))

• Reason For Request:

Did you know cry-types had entirely way of existing that just makes no sense?
Like, why are you wasting your time on offering tea to one another? Or why are you so scared of saying the truth, instead hiding it in this ball of lies to make you not-cry and make the truth hard to decrypt?

I mean it feels like such a pointless useless waste of time? It is just silly everyone does that! And, even wants -me- to do that also, and when I don’t, I am called rude, for some reason.
I mean. I am explaining my way of thinking and all the sudden someone tells me ‘hey Fira you know you are hurting their feelings?’
No I am not, and no I don’t!

So- well- whatever.
Since everyone says that, it makes logical sense everyone is truth- unless you agreed on me behind my back- and that mistake is in me as this one common ground.
So, I figured that I also wanna talk cry-typeese…? Or at least understand it…? It feels like entire different language though I did not see it being offered on the diplomacy wing in the list of languages…
…master said to go ask here. So I ask.

Though whoever is going to accept this…? They will have to be reeaaally patient and have some good reasons or examples why or- just- translate it into- well- normal thinking- because- most of the time…? It feels like contradictions…? Chaos…? And makes no sense.

I mean. I do think that balance is kind of contradiction. I just struggle to find it in… this.

Thank you for your time and efford.

• Additional Information:

I already know some stuff!

1. You bow to everyone when you see them and when you are leaving interaction.
2. You call all adults ‘master’. You call children ‘padawan’, ‘initiate’ or ‘hopeful’.
3. You say ‘thank you’ every time you recieve something, be it material, opened doors to you, or knowledge. ‘Thank you’ can be suplemented with bow.
4. The first one to the doors opens the doors. If this is not true, then it is in following order:
a. higher rank to lower rank
b. boy to girl
c. older to younger
-> exceptions being old people (usualy recognizeable with canes) and small children (usualy recognizeable by being smaller then you or unable to reach the door-opening mechanism)
5. Old people are treated like small children: you don’t yell at them and you don’t fight them with your sword.
6. You answer question at the same moment you are asked it. Else it is considered rude.
7. When someone hurts you, intention over-rules the end result, meaning you are not supposed to be angry when someone meant well to you and just messed up.
8. Mistake because of ignorance is okey. Mistake when you knew better means you are allowed to take offense.
9. You say sorry when you know you hurt someone and try to do it so next time you dont repeat the mistake.
10. Being offered tea is supposed to mean “lets give the time to one another”, not offense or waste time and resources.

So… if these are true, then you can skip them…?
But, what else is there to make me sound more like a crytype and less rude?

Hello Sa-Fira,
I'd be happy to help you learn more about this subject and answer your interrogations.

I'll contact you shortly to set up a meeting date.

Regards,
Jedi Knight Eluna Mioni.